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Welcome to Sex

Your No-Silly-Questions Guide to Pleasure, Sexuality and Figuring it Out

Dr. Melissa Kang Yumi Stynes Jenny Latham

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Hardie Grant Books
17 May 2023
Series: Welcome To You
Every household needs a copy of Welcome to Sex, the multi-award-winning, #1 best-selling, age-appropriate guide to sex and sexuality for teens of all genders, from the authors of Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Boobs!

★WINNER: 2024 Indie Book Awards Book of the Year for Young Adults ★

★WINNER: 2024 Australian Book Industry Awards Book of the Year for Older Children ★

★SHORTLISTED: 2024 Prime Minister's Literary Awards for Young Adult Literature ★

★SHORTLISTED: 2024 Australian Book Industry Awards Social Impact Book of the Year ★ ★SHORTLISTED: 2024 Australian Book Industry Awards Audiobook of the Year ★

★SHORTLISTED: 2024 BookPeople Book of the Year ★

This introductory guide by 'Dolly Doctor' Dr Melissa Kang and journalist Yumi Stynes (Ladies, We Need to Talk) is packed with honest advice on everything you need to know about sex: how to know when you're ready, reasons not to have sex, and exploring pleasure on your own – as well as frank, clear information about becoming sexually intimate with others, staying safe, and how to communicate (including talking to your parents about sex – this is really important). Plus everything you've ever wondered about wobbly starts and awkward moments!

Welcome to Sex is inclusive, intersectional, multicultural, reassuring and all about keeping sex fun, real, and shame-free. With plenty of case studies, first-person accounts and questions from real teens – covering a wide range of gender, sexuality and dis/ability – Welcome to Sex will help readers navigate their sexual debuts with confidence!

'An informative, entertaining, and potentially life-saving book that should find a place in every home.' –Prime Minister's Literary Awards

‘It’s a glorious thing that a book like this exists.’ –Pedestrian

'A brilliant and accessible book … Sexual abusers and predators [rely] on shame to silence [their targets]. The more information we can give children and teenagers about their bodies, [the] better.’ –The Age

Welcome to Sex covers a wide range of age-appropriate content for teens, including:

What Is Sex? 

Parents and Carers and Awkward Conversations 

Getting Intimate With Myself 

Orgasms 

Labels: Sexual And Gender Identities 

What The Outside World Is Telling Us About Sex 

Myths About Sex 

Reasons To Not Have Sex 

How It Begins: Feelings, Flirting And Falling In Love 

What Can Actually Happen With Another Person? 

Wobbly Starts 

Relationships 

Looking After Myself And My Partner 

Pregnancy Lowdown 

Awkward Sex Moments And Other Challenges 

Is Something Wrong? 

Keeping Safe

Read more in the multi-award-winning Welcome To series by Dr Melissa Kang and Yumi Stynes:

Welcome to Your Period: Your easy, no-silly-questions guide to handling it like a boss Welcome to Your Boobs: Your easy, no-silly-questions guide to your breast friends Welcome to Consent: How to say no, when to say yes and everything in between Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out​
By:   ,
Illustrated by:   Jenny Latham
Imprint:   Hardie Grant Books
Country of Publication:   Australia
Dimensions:   Height: 180mm,  Width: 140mm, 
ISBN:   9781760509538
ISBN 10:   1760509531
Series:   Welcome To You
Pages:   304
Publication Date:  
Recommended Age:   From 14 to 99 years
Audience:   Young adult ,  Preschool (0-5)
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Most people know Dr Melissa Kang as the longest-serving expert behind the iconic Dolly Doctor column, but she's also a practising medical doctor for marginalised young people and has academic roles at the University of Technology Sydney and the University of Sydney. She is fifth-generation Malaysian-Chinese Anglo-Australian, which makes specialising in adolescent sexuality and sexual health all the more interesting. She continues to speak about these topics in the mainstream media. Yumi Stynes is a second-gen Japanese-Australian TV and radio presenter. She's currently the host of Ladies, We Need to Talk, an award-winning podcast that explores all the trickiest topics and taboos about women's health, including periods, discharge, difficult motherhood, and whether or not your vagina is weird. Together, they are the best-selling authors of Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent, and Welcome to Your Boobs.

Reviews for Welcome to Sex: Your No-Silly-Questions Guide to Pleasure, Sexuality and Figuring it Out

'A fearless, frank and important resource for young people, Welcome to Sex is meticulously researched and comprehensive in its representation of sex and sexual experience. The text is very inclusive in its language and the content can be read by all young adults regardless of sexual orientation, identity, gender or culture. Kang and Stynes’s combined voice is warm, friendly and approachable—brooking no awkward silences in what can be a difficult conversation between young people and adults ... An informative, entertaining, and potentially life-saving book that should find a place in every home (even ones that don’t contain a teenager).' –Judges' comments, Prime Minister's Literary Awards ‘Welcome to Sex [offers] comprehensive information, alongside playful illustrations and a welcoming tone of acceptance, providing better relationships and sexuality education than most of us ever had.’ – Sydney Morning Herald ​ ‘When I saw the kerfuffle about Welcome to Sex [online], the first thing I did was go online and order a copy for my children. I'll let them read it, and I'll talk to them about what they've learned, and what questions they may have. Porn will not be the only sex education my children have … sex is fun and healthy and normal, and that they have every right to decide what happens to their own bodies.’ –Nine Honey ‘It’s a glorious thing that a book like this exists.’ –Pedestrian ‘Welcome to Sex [reached] the top of the Amazon charts on Thursday, two months after its release on May 17. It overtook global hits such as Rebecca Kuang’s Yellowface and James Clear’s Atomic Habits and has also temporarily sold out on Amazon.’ –Sydney Morning Herald  ‘The moment the internet was easily accessible on handheld devices, our children lost their innocence, and what control parents had over their kids was diminished … Welcome To Sex, to me, seems like a healthy book for a parent to have on their shelves.’ –Geelong Advertiser ‘Stynes and Kang's book treats sex as something natural to be enjoyed, and it treats its readers like real people. [Young people] are going to have sex, and if the adults in their lives are only going to talk about birth control – or refuse to discuss sex at all – then they will learn from unrealistic and awful depictions in porn and on social media. A book offering unashamed answers therefore sounds like a handy aid. After it skyrocketed up bestseller lists, it seems plenty of families agree.’ – Herald Sun‘ 'A brilliant and accessible book … Giving young people information about their bodies, their emerging sexuality, how to understand and communicate in intimate relationships, is vital. Sexual abusers and predators [rely] on shame to silence them. The more information we can give children and teenagers about their bodies, and how eventually to form consensual intimate relationships in age- appropriate ways, the better.’ –The Age   ‘This is such an important book for all of us. It is the essence of what a good non-fiction book should be all about. Accurate, reliable, and accessible information and advice about an issue that is so important to young people. Dr Melissa Kang and Yumi Stynes provide advice in a non-judgemental and well-written style that resonates with teenagers and young adults. If you are looking for an educational, accessible and accurate source of information on this important topic then this is the book. This information is way more accurate and reliable than anything your mates will tell you at the shops or on Facebook.’ –Indie Book Awards  


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