Debbie Hayton is a physics teacher, journalist and trade unionist. A transsexual, Hayton is now a leading commentator on trans and gender issues.
'Debbie Hayton provides a brave, unflinching, insightful account that challenges both the Left and Right, but no more than it challenges her own prior beliefs and decisions. This is required reading for anyone wanting to understand male gender dysphoria' - Michael Bailey, author of The Man Who Would be Queen 'Debbie has an important voice, having had a unique and important journey, a lived experience that is vital to listen to, to learn from and to acknowledge the facts, truths and genuine concerns and challenges gender ideology presents' - Sharron Davies, author of Unfair Play 'Debbie Hayton's book offers a compelling warts and all description of what happens when a husband and father-of-three decides to transition. The power of an echo-chamber, the impact of the Internet, trans politics and the dislocation that can happen when a person builds a fantasy inside their head, are all powerfully depicted in this book' - Stella O'Malley, psychotherapist and author