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Our Last Walk Home

Love, Cancer, and the Agony of Letting Go

Jennifer Sanfilippo

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English
Jennifer Sanfilippo
08 April 2024
In January, 2020, Jennifer Sanfilippo's life was upended when her husband Jim was diagnosed with a rare form of leukemia. Thrust into the cancer battle against the backdrop of a roiling Covid-19 pandemic, Jim fought for his life while Jennifer fought to protect their family from the indignities of the healthcare complex.

Our Last Walk Home is an exploration of cancer treatment in the US, from diagnosis to death, through the lens of a widow's grief. This very personal, often painful and surprisingly funny narrative challenges the big questions of mental health care for cancer patients and families, patient centeredness in teaching hospitals, and our nation's cultural refusal to create useful dialogue and practices that support individuals through death and grief. With a heartfelt and generous telling, Jennifer guides the reader through her journey of hope and loss.
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Imprint:   Jennifer Sanfilippo
Dimensions:   Height: 216mm,  Width: 140mm,  Spine: 15mm
Weight:   327g
ISBN:   9798990031104
Pages:   254
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Born and raised in Buffalo, NY (Go Bills!), Jennifer Sanfilippo, MBA, enjoyed a robust career as a trusted executive advisor and political strategist. She brought her thoughtful, strategic sensibilities first to the public sector, advising members of Congress, governors, mayors and senior staffers at the federal, state and local levels. Mid-career, she transitioned to the private sector, advising senior executives at several financial institutions in New York State. Since Jim's passing, Jennifer has turned her attention to providing support and counsel to those facing major life transitions, and facilitating end-of-life conversations. She is the delighted mother of two magnificent young men, and lives in comfortable co-dependence with her three cats in Rochester, NY.Visit Jennifer's website at www.jennifer-sanfilippo.com for more information and links to resources on end-of-life care, leukemia and other related areas of interest.

Reviews for Our Last Walk Home: Love, Cancer, and the Agony of Letting Go

"This book invites us to develop the cognitive awareness and emotional muscle needed to find meaning, dignity, and love in facing cancer treatment. Jennifer writes with a rare kind of transparency and honesty while maintaining a sense of humor in unspeakable circumstances. Her words offer us as both workers in, and consumers of, Healthcare, a bittersweet gift. They illuminate the system's tendency towards a lack of capacity to keep the experience of the patient and their family in mind in an empathic way. Procedure trumps process. Mental health and well-being are sacrificed. Jennifer's courage to approach the issue of continuing treatment at the potential cost to quality of life highlights our system's lack of training in facing end of life dilemmas. Her story helps us understand the undeniable need for social support and presence from each provider along the way, a 'slowing down' so to speak, in decision-making around sometimes violent medical interventions. May this be a valuable tool for all those who are in practice and in training to work in healthcare. Christine G. Fitzstevens, LCSW-R, CGP, AGPA/Fellow Having worked at an academic medical center for over 20 years, many friends and families share their journeys navigating diagnoses, procedures, and hospital stays. Having had my own family members diagnosed with cancer and myriad other life altering diseases, I too have had joys and sorrows which bump up against the medical world feeling like I am trapped in a pinball machine. Jennifer's book is the first I have read that puts a chapter of her life, in which she received her before and after words - ""Jim has cancer"" - into perspective. How do we say goodbye while we are fighting like hell to stay on? Jennifer also offers a personal narrative history that lends a view into marriage, parenting, self-doubt, compassion and forgiveness - topics that shape our every day. Her stories tie a bow around our own lived experiences to remind us time is finite. We must live each day knowing we make choices that define our here and now relationships with those we love, while acknowledging for some, yesterdays and today may be all the time we have. Choose well. Catherine Cerulli, J.D., Ph.D."


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