A dynamic, powerful, hard-hitting book. It offers tremendous hope as well as understanding. It could truly be a lifesaver. Abigail Van Buren, Dear Abby I consider Susan Forward to be among the foremost therapists of our age. John Bradshaw, author of <b>Healing the Shame That Binds You</b> and <b>Homecoming</b> Bantam Books by Susan Forward: <b>Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts and You Don t Know Why Obsessive Love: When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life</b>